Hi, it’s Ginny Lindsay from Two to Three Relationship Counselling and just wanted to talk to you today about turning towards instead of away, and what does that look like and what does that mean. So people often put out what we call bids for connection, and that might
Whether you have known your partner for many years or have an arranged marriage, problems tend to creep up over time. Pre-marriage counselling is helpful to understand your partner better, ask questions you’ve never thought of before, discuss topics you otherwise take for granted and avoid future problems. Let’s discuss
At our core, all human beings are animals with basic needs, but we are also shaped by our own thoughts, beliefs, values, experiences, and expectations, among other influences. Then, when we choose a partner, we sometimes struggle to find common ground and develop a relationship that makes both partners feel
Seeking marriage counselling, whether it’s for the first time or the hundredth, can be a daunting prospect, but it doesn’t have to be. Although every session is unique, there are a few cornerstones of counselling that tend to be most productive and helpful in dealing with emotional blocks. Let’s explore
As we come to the end of January I am feeling recharged and refreshed. I have been thinking about how we go through cycles in our lives and in our relationships. My numerology friends tell me that 2017 is the start of a new 9 year cycle, so it’s all
It can be hard not to get caught up in all the Christmas craziness at this time of year and make it all about creating a lot of added stress for yourself. While it can be an exciting time with a new baby or small children, I have seen many
With the longer days, I am enjoying all the light that pours into my office and home right through into the early evening. At this time of year, I find many of the couples I work with in counselling are stressed and serious. It made me think about how we
As a relationship counsellor I work with new parents everyday on all aspects of their relationships and their lives. A big factor that leads to conflict, irritability and even depression is sleep deprivation. While sleepless nights and disrupted sleep are part of the journey of parenthood, ongoing sleep deprivation can
Love languages are a relationship concept that was developed by Dr Gary Chapman in his 1992 nonfiction book ‘The Five Love Languages: How To Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate.’ In his book, Dr. Chapman defines the 5 love languages as words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, physical
Understanding and acknowledging your partner’s love language is essential for fostering a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Love languages refer to the different ways individuals express and receive love. Recognising your partner’s love language can significantly enhance your emotional connection, communication, and overall relationship satisfaction. Benefits of Recognising Your Partner’s Love
Understanding love languages can significantly enhance relationship satisfaction. Here’s a look at the correlation between love languages and overall relationship happiness, supported by research findings, personal anecdotes, and practical tips. Research Findings Understanding love languages is essential for enhancing relationship satisfaction. Research has consistently shown that when couples identify and
Love languages can greatly enhance our connections with others, extending beyond romantic relationships to include family, friends, and colleagues. By understanding and adapting love languages to fit various relationship dynamics, we can foster deeper connections and improve communication. Understanding Love Languages Love languages are essential for fostering connection and intimacy